Lonely again

I dont write diary.. I do wish to write that.. By writing diary i believe a person cn share his or her feeling in writen.. Bloging gives the same feeling as that.. I do have friend n family around me but stil i feel soo lonely.. I feel like a dove missing feathers.. 

Dreamzzz

What is dream.. When was the last time u draw a person dreaming? I did recently realise that we always draw dream in cloud.. I was figuring out y n i might got the answer for that.  Cloud is a thing that never last long n wil diserpear when wind blows.. Thats how a persons dream as well.. So stop dreaming, nothing gona happen by doing that..

Miracle

Hoping for miracle to happen...  There should be always a lonely feeling surrounded me.. People always there to make me feel angry, iretated.. I got no idea y.. Just feel to go far far away from everyone.. Let me know if i have a place or a coner for my self in this world..

Making Lytebox Work in IE8 - Close, Previous & Next

Update: There is another solution that is a touch cleaner and probably gets more to the root of the issue available here: http://nederveld.wordpress.com/2009/07/02/lytebox-and-internet-explorer-8/

Here at Guild Launch we've been using a wonderful streamlined version of Lightbox called Lytebox. We use it primarily because it's a much smaller download than the other Lightboxes and Lightbox 2 and doesn't require any external libraries such as Prototype or Scriptaculous.

This version hasn't seen much development in the last year or so though. It just works.... until IE8 came out. With the release of IE8 some problems cropped up. Namely, the Close, Previous and Next buttons wouldn't show. After a lot of playing around and testing different things I've found the solution. So without further ado here is how to get Lytebox working in IE8 again.

One thing to keep in mind, this fix is specific to us and removes some of the customization that Lytebox has in its CSS. If you know what you are doing you can adapt the fix to your own customization. We've been using the "Grey" theme so I just tweaked those settings:

Before The Changes

In the current lytebox.css there are these lines for the previous buttons in the Grey theme:

#lbPrev { width: 49%; height: 100%; background: transparent url(images/blank.gif) no-repeat; display: block; left: 0; float: left; }
#lbPrev.grey:hover, #lbPrev.grey:visited:hover { background: url(images/prev_grey.gif) left 15% no-repeat; }

And these for the Next button in the Grey theme:

#lbNext { width: 49%; height: 100%; background: transparent url(images/blank.gif) no-repeat; display: block; right: 0; float: right; }
#lbNext.grey:hover, #lbNext.grey:visited:hover { background: url(images/next_grey.gif) right 15% no-repeat; }

And this for the Close button:

#lbClose { width: 64px; height: 28px; float: right; margin-bottom: 1px; }
#lbClose.grey { background: url(images/close_grey.png) no-repeat; }

The Problem

The crux of the problem is that IE8 isn't recognizing the "Grey" class being applied to the ID by the script. Instead of directly figuring out why that is I just merged the classes together since we always use the Grey theme.

The Fix

For the Previous:

#lbPrev { width: 49%; height: 100%; background: transparent url(images/blank.gif) no-repeat; display: block; left: 0; float: left; }
#lbPrev:hover, #lbPrev:visited:hover { background: url(images/prev_grey.gif) left 15% no-repeat; }

For the Next:

#lbNext { width: 49%; height: 100%; background: transparent url(images/blank.gif) no-repeat; display: block; right: 0; float: right; }
#lbNext:hover, #lbNext:visited:hover { background: url(images/next_grey.gif) right 15% no-repeat; }

And for the Close:

#lbClose { width: 64px; height: 28px; float: right; margin-bottom: 1px; background: url(images/close_grey.png) no-repeat;}

Why does this work?
Basically I just made an end run around IE8 not rendering the Grey class properly and just made the button be always the Grey set. If you are using one of the other themes just make the same changes using that theme's images.

So, now you have Lytebox working in IE8 the way it should.

16 Jan 2011

after a big interval thought of blogging again.. :)

Blogging is a friend of lonely people. :)

Hi blog world.. Im back to blogging back after some time... :) hope will continue writing my experience's in.. :)

Five Things it Means When He Says He Wants Space

Is it just a prelude to a breakup when your guy tells you he wants to cool things down? Not necessarily, says Glamour's Married Jake. The columnist explores five potential drivers behind a request for some space.

A lot of you guys have been asking various forms of the same question: my dude seems to be putting the brakes on, and I don't understand what it means. Well, it can mean a few different things ...

Listen, I'm not a mind-reader. So I can't tell you exactly why he says he "needs a little space," or "wants to take things a little more slowly," or "needs some time to think about things" or any of the other vague, overly gentle and therefore more heartbreaking ways he has of saying this. He might actually be gay for all I know, and that's an awfully hard thing to diagnose from an anonymous post on Smitten.

But I can tell you that it doesn't mean it's the end. I've told every single girlfriend I've ever had that I needed space. Obviously I didn't end up marrying every single girlfriend I had (I only married one, whom I told several times that I needed space). But what it means is that there is something about being in a relationship that has always freaked me out. I can feel the freak-out once in a while even now, when I'm married, it's just that it doesn't bother me much any more because I know better.

But I can make several broad characterizations about what it means when guys say this:

1. He's scared.
This I can say for certain. Whether he's scared because he's too much in love and is losing himself, of because he's afraid he's going to end up married to someone he doesn't want to be married to, or because, like me, relationships can just plain scare him, I can't say for certain.

2. Yes, he may want to break up.
The hard truth is that this is what it seems: a break-up with training wheels.

3. He wants to make sure he's in control.
This is a really selfish thing, and something I'm guilty of. But sometimes men just want to make sure that they are in control of a relationship because not being in control is a feeling that makes them very uncomfortable. It's the same reason you put the brakes on when you're driving or skiing or riding a bike downhill: control.

4. He's trying to be honest.
While, yes, asking for space can be selfish. And hurtful. And really kind of evil. There's also something a tiny bit noble about it. He needs some time to think about what he wants. And he's being strong enough to ask for it.

5. What it may not mean is that this is the end.
There's something holding him back from breaking up. Or else he'd have said, "It's not me, it's you ... can I have my keys back?" Maybe it's that he truly does suspect (as it was in my case) that it's him, and not you.

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Meaning of Happiness

hmmmmm.... Happinesss... Undefined at this moment. Because Im happy.. :-)